Seven Habits
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
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(Los 7 Habitos de los Adolescentes Altamente Efectivos)
Habits could be your greatest help or your heaviest burden, they could be the keys to success or they can drag you towards failure, they are completely under our command.
If we are firm with them, we can have the world at our feet. And if you are not firm, it will destroy you.
First we make our habits and then our habits make us who we are.
In life, a teenager has a series of difficulties with which it is not easy to fight, he has much to do and there is never enough time (homework, school, friends' parties, etc.).
We feel that our life is out of control, so we need help.
They are real problems that they have to face, so I will give you some remedies so you can deal with it. These are the 7 habits of highly effective teenagers.
This programme teaches 7 habits for being more effective and ultimately happier.
By learning and applying the 7 habits you will:
- Choose to spend your time and energy more wisely.
- Appreciate the value of knowing why you do everything.
- Stop doing things that don't serve a purpose.
- Know what relationships to end, redefine or renew.
- Improve your health, wellbeing and lifestyle.
☞Habits
BE PROACTIVE
You are responsible. Response-able. You have the ability to choose how you respond to any stimulus. The more you do this the more you expand your circle of influence. This habit is the foundation for growing your effectiveness.
BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND
Imagine you looked back on your life at your 80th birthday party. Would you be happy with you life or have some regrets? Life goals, mission statements and personal values give us the direction and purpose we need to be effective.
PUT FIRST THINGS THE FIRST
When you know where you're going you then need to spend your time trying to get there. That means you need to stop doing some things. You need to ignore or delegate other tasks. Most importantly you need to maximise your time on important but not urgent activities most people never get around to doing to become more effective.
THINK WIN - WIN
If you thought about your relationships as bank accounts which relationships would we be in credit and which in debt? Choosing our relationships to nurture and our relationships to let go of will expand your capacity to be more effective.
SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND AND BE UNDERSTOOD
Do you listen with your ears? Or do you listen with your eyes and heart too? You build trust by truly listening to what other people have to say and being able to interpret that in your own words. Active listening leads to more effectiveness.
SYNERGIZE
How does 1 + 1 = 3? This is the habit of difference and in particular the power that comes from seeking out people who are different and embracing that. Effectiveness comes easier when you're not the limitation.
SHARPEN THE SAW
Are you putting yourself first? You are your number one asset. Feed your physical, mental and spiritual needs to help you be effective every day.
THOSE ARE THE ONES!
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